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April 10, 2015 / admin

Robert Pattinson & FKA Twigs Engaged! Not an April Fool’s Joke

fka-twigs-robert-pattinsonIn the latest black woman, white man celebrity interracial couple news, 28 year old actor / heartthrob Robert Pattinson and 27 year old singer FKA twigs (Tahliah Debrett Barnett) – otherwise known as Twigbert – are reportedly engaged (No, it wasn’t an April fool’s joke and no, it’s not because they’re trying to hurry up the marriage part because of an imminent baby carriage)!

Rob is madly in love with FKA and has been pretty much from the time they started dating last September.

Of course, there have been many bitter (:cough – white – cough:) fangirls who have expressed their outrage and disappointment with Robert’s choice of love interest, deeming her not worthy of the handsome Pattinson.

Methinks it has a lot to do with FKA twigs’ ethnic background (her father is Jamaican, and her mother is english and spanish but the average person would identify her as ‘Black’ upon seeing her) and reminds me a lot of the whole Zoe Kravitz / Chris Pine, Michael Fassbender…¬†insert other cute hot white actor here.

I guess they would’ve preferred the seemingly dull gay/bi-sexual kristen stewart (who cheated on him) to be the one who got the ring from Pattinson over the confident, bold and oozing with talent, FKA twigs? Oh well, too bad! In the infamous words of selena gomez, ‘the heart wants what it wants’.

Congrats to the extremely happy couple, and remember ladies – there are plenty of gorgeous white men who will appreciate your unique, fly style and beauty!


January 6, 2015 / admin

Youtubers Shelly and Michael IR Wedding Video

To continue the trend of our new year, happy feel-good news streak, I received this note from youtube bloggers Shelly and Michael:


My husband and I are an interracial Youtube vlogging couple. We record our weekly adventures and share them with our viewers. We were married last week and have an awesome wedding video on our channel. We would be delighted if you would check our wedding video and channel out. If you feel so inclined, please share with your readers! What we hope to accomplish with our channel is to inspire everyone with our relationship. Thank you very much for your time and hope to hear from you very soon!ūüôā

Shelly and Michael

Thanks for sharing your gorgeous wedding Shelly and Michael and best wishes for your freshly minted marriage!

Check out more videos on their youtube page at

January 5, 2015 / admin

Tamera Mowry & Adam are Pregnant w/ Baby #2!

1488246_843247272379405_6945609193725214777_nLots of news in the BW-WM celebrity couple world in the new year!

Much thanks to those of you who have sent me notes regarding actress Tamera Mowry and husband, Adam Housley’s big announcement.


Tamera broke the news on her Facebook wall / instragram to her fans with the following statement:

“Adam and I are beyond thrilled to announce we are#ClearblueConfirmed! Love¬†Clearblue‘s pregnancy test with Smart Countdown. It helped me get through the wait for my result by counting down with me. We can’t wait to meet our newest addition!!¬†#spon


74921036Yeah, it sound conspicuously like a pregnancy test infomercial (and she’s probably getting paid to mention clear blue every third word, but I’m not mad at her.. after all, she’s got another mouth to feed on the way!)

Congrats Tamera and family!

January 4, 2015 / admin

Everything You Need to Know to Meet, Attract & Green Light White Men

finalcoverThe (130 page) book is finally here! As promised on our webinar a few weeks ago, everything you need to know on how to meet, attract and green light White men is available in the book, “How to be Irresistible to White Men: Interracial Dating Secrets of Asian Women Black Women Who Swirl Should Know”. To all of those who pre-ordered the book at the discount price of $9.97, your book and bonuses are in your inbox (check it)

I still wanted to extend the early bird price for those of you new readers or readers of the blog who didn’t catch the webinar (I might be putting up a replay). SO you too can get the book for $9.97 when you CLICK HERE.

Read below for the introduction and if you have any questions about what’s in the book, feel free to ask me in the comments section below.



Back when I was in college, I answered a ‚Äėstudent roommate wanted‚Äô ad for an apartment in New York City. Little did I know, this was the day that would change my entire philosophy and outlook on men, and the course of my life forever.

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January 2, 2015 / admin

Zoe Saldana & her Italian hubby welcome twins!

zoe-marco---zCy and Bowie- those are the names of the newborns belonging to hollywood it girl, zoe saldana (35), and her Italian artist husband, Marco Perego.

The couple secretly wed in London back in July and these are duo’s first children together.

We all know¬†Zoe has been very open to dating men outside of her ‘race’ before and she apparently has also been very vocal about wanting kids. As I mention in my book “How to be Irresistible to White Men” it’s super smart to put these thoughts and desires out into the atmosphere. It’s the power of attraction at work – you never know who is watching and listening and who will respond once you make your wishes known.


I also think it’s important to point out one of the many benefits of interracial marriages/families (not that many of you need any more convincing about the perks to dating out)¬†is that any children you may have with someone from outside your nationality will benefit from getting to know multiple cultures, and in some instances languages.

Zoe had this to say about how she and Marco plan to give their littles ones an advantage early on in life as it pertains to the above in an interview with Cosmo for Latinos last year:


zoe-saldana_glamour_23jul14_pa_b“[Our children] will speak the languages that we speak; my sisters and I grew up learning French and speaking English and Spanish, and because of that, we’re able to understand¬†Italian¬†andPortuguese, But I’m going to have to make a conscious effort to speak Spanish to my children, because I speak Spanglish.”


Anyway, congrats to Zoe and Marco on their new bundles of joy and let this be a lesson¬†to¬†other brown women everywhere – it can be done. When you step your game up (in your career, appearance, expectations) the world will rise to the occasion and give you exactly what you need/are looking for. Don’t give up!!!

September 17, 2014 / admin

Midweek Missed Connections – September 2014

Yep, somewhere in America there is a White guy and Black girl checking each other out – on a train, bus, mall, bar, cafe, etc. Unfortunately all too many of these individuals will never speak, meet or connect because of bad timing, insecurity, etc. That is where Craigslist missed connections comes into play. I love browsing these stories from time to time and if nothing, it’s proof that White men definitely find Black women attractive – and vice versa (lots of staring, flirting, smiling being described in these posts).
Maybe one of these very posts is meant for you! I hope these hopefully (albeit a little far reaching) posts will inspire you to speak up and seize the moment. 

headBlack girl at Topanga Mall – m4w – 29 (West Valley)

Craigslist Los Angeles

We both stared (but we didn’t want the other to know we were staring!) at each other frequently (in fact I did catch your smile) at the food court. Maybe you didn’t know it but I love dating women outside my race. You were 28-33? Maybe 5’5″ to 5’8″? Wearing a short plaid skirt with a tight top (yes, you have amazing legs!). I didn’t approach you because it looked like you were with your mom and I didn’t want to freak her out (but I should have!). OK, me. 44, /divorced/muscular body/Italian/French/German.

Bridgeport train station – m4w (Bridgeport)

Black girl, from train station. Friday around 1pm. I’m white guy, you ask me- how you doing. I want to see you again. I guess you go to New Haven.

Cute Black girl who took pic with me at Colombian Festival(7/20/14) – m4w – 25 (Elizabeth, NJ)

I know this is probably a real shot in the dark, but here it goes anyway. I am looking for a cute black girl who took a picture with me on Morris Ave. a few doors down from The Burger King on Sunday July the 20th., the day of The Colombian Festival in Elizabeth, N.J. I was with a group of friends and we asked you if you could take a pic of us. Then I asked you if I could take a pic with you and you said yes, so we did. I was the thick(not fat) dude with the red shorts, Superman yellow, blue and red shirt(the Colombian colors) and a yellow wrap on my head, green eyes also had on very light shades, and tan skin. I was slightly drunk, so I did not even ask you for your number after we took the pic together. (kickin’ myself for that one) Just so you don’t get the wrong idea, I only drink socially, and I do work , and am working on a profession. Like I said, I know this is a shot in the dark, but thought I would try it anyway.


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September 16, 2014 / admin

NOMINATE YOUR FAVORITE! TV’s Best Interracial Couple 2014

Who deserves the best interracial couple on television for 2014?

Who deserves the best interracial couple on television for 2014?

So, since I don’t watch television I’m going to need your help on this one! Because if it were up to me Toni and Todd Garrette from Girlfriends is still the first interracial couple that comes to my mind and lord only knows how long that show has been off the air! haha.

As such, I’m turning to you to nominate your favorite interracial couple (black woman/white man) on television for 2014. It matters not the category (drama, sitcom, reality television show, soaps *Do these still exist?*, etc… You name it! As long it’s on television, I want it!)

Those of you who love seeing pairs on television that resemble your relationship and want to support these shows, now you’ll have a running list to consult!

Leave the name of the actor/actress, their character’s name (if applicable), and the name of the television show in the comment box below. Once we have a pretty good list, I will put those names up for voting!


1. What constitutes a “couple”?

Married, dating, dated in the past, flirting, hooking up. However, if you just wish two characters would have a love storyline introduced or anything like that, it wouldn’t qualify for this competition, sorry!

2. What if the character(s) had only a guest spot or is not a recurring character?

That’s okay. The character(s) doesn’t have to be a main character. Guest spots, characters in a handful of episodes, etc. are totally cool.

3. What about webisodes?

Nooo… but if you have a webisode or know of a web show that features an interracial couple, let me know about it so that I can feature it here on the blog.

4. What happens after I nominate my favorite couple?

We will then make a separate post featuring all of your suggested nominees that will be open for voting.

5. Should I nominate my couple in the comments box if someone else already did?

Nope. Not necessary. Just make sure you come back and vote for that couple once we get all the nominees in.

Oh Toni Childs, how I loved her!

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