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April 5, 2011 / admin

How Do Black Women Flirt? (Open Post)

A popular search term that leads people to this blog is “How do Black women flirt”. I swear it’s on my search list EVERY DAY! (As an aside ladies, tons of guys are checking for you!) 

Since this question is searched for so much I have to assume the way Black women are flirting with White men is eluding them… In other words, they are not quite sure if they should interpret your actions towards them as interest in them.

Since plenty of sites have explored the different ways in which White men flirt, I wanted to open this up to Black women to reveal their tactics. Here’s your chance to inform White men how YOU flirt… and hopefully you do. The more we know about each other, the easier it will be for us to communicate – so leave your comments below.



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  1. Jess / Apr 6 2011 5:29 pm

    We flirt like everyone else; ) BTW, I love your blog!

    • admin / Apr 7 2011 4:52 pm

      Thanks Jess! I’m happy to hear that 🙂

  2. Alicia / Apr 6 2011 7:10 pm

    Personally, being from Philly and always on the run, if I smile at what you say A LOT, and actually stop what I’m doing to allow you time to make a move, then you can take it as a green light. B/c if I’m not interested, I won’t even break stride 😉

    • admin / Apr 7 2011 4:53 pm

      This! lol. I think most women won’t break a stride if there’s no interest, so if a woman is willing to give you the time of day it is a good sign

    • Kevin Dorival / Feb 12 2014 3:50 am

      Lol. That is funny. I’ve always been able to tell that a woman is flirting with me. Its very flattering but when a woman bend over or pull their blouse down it becomes very trashy – i don’t like trash. I love class. When a woman breaks stride then us men have a millisecond to make our smooth intro. Check out my show at 7pm – The King Kevin Show. Every wednesday. #LoveSpeical

  3. Cheri / Apr 12 2011 10:42 am

    I don’t think I flirt any differently than any other race actually. I smile, I engage, I touch him on the arm or shoulder when I’m talking. Things like that. Doesn’t every woman do that?

  4. Estelle / Apr 12 2011 8:03 pm

    Typically when I flirt, if I don’t know the guy (but would like to) I’ll: make eye contact, smile, look away, repeat.
    If I know him, and we’re talking, I’ll laugh at all his jokes, make a lot of eye contact, tease him a bit, and probably find an excuse to touch him…

  5. Alexis / Jan 3 2012 12:20 am

    I tend to laugh a lot or giggle, which I think shows my interest and personality a bit. I also make sure to compliment their clothes, if I’m really interested.

    I also talk about preferences in certain subjects. For example, I’ll probably ask him what his favorite band/ musician is and if we have a musicianin common, what he thinks of this album or that song. Just pleasant small talk for a while. If he hasn’t already, I might bring up favorite activities which could lead to a date sometime.

    I don’t think I flirt any differently than any other races, especially since my group of my friends is very diverse but, who knows. If I’m in a particularly shy mood, I’ll probably smile at you a lot and touch my hair, especially if you’re in a group with your friends of something. In a group, I might make a point to stand next to you and comment specifically to you on what the group’s talking about, that kind of thing. Just any show of interest should be taken as a good sign. Hope this helps!

  6. Cassiee / May 7 2012 7:11 pm

    I mean i guess….

  7. Jim / Jun 20 2013 1:35 pm

    My wife did as Estelle

  8. joseph / Aug 27 2015 2:20 pm

    im thirteen lookin for black girls who wanna flirt

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