White Guys who Love Black Women Abound!
Where are all the white guys who like or would date a black woman? Umm… literally, everywhere!
Last week I went on 3 really fun dates with 3 different WM. So far, this week I had playful banter/flirtations with 4 different guys – and I’m not talking about guys from dating sites.. I’ve done that too but they don’t really count in my book. If you want to know how I’ll tell you… it’s all in having an abundance mentality, getting out more and being playful/flirty. Seriously, just having fun in the dating process as well as the process of meeting new people makes a world of difference.
The problem when you tell yourself that there are not a lot of white guys who like black women is you actually internalize and believe that nonsense. Therefore, you probably don’t try when you see a guy who fancies you because you’re already convinced he probably won’t be into you. That is not to say you should DO all sorts of things and TRY really hard – it just means you probably won’t smile at him or attempt to be flirtatious, or even dress up in an attempt to be more attractive when going out – remember our behavior is a large way in which we attract people to us. It doesn’t actually matter where you’re going either! I met these guys in the most random places and just from smiling and/or asking for a favor – e.g. asking if I could get a candy or asking for directions. This was actually the case that lead to two of those dates. I sowed the seeds in these guys brains by not only asking but doing it in a way that said I’m asking YOU for a reason! They caught on and ran with it and most men will too!
I’ve realized all I really need to do is be at my best (attire, makeup, etc.) which usually leads to me feeling really confident and walking with an extra pep in my step. Next, I survey where I am. This consists of me just noticing who is noticing me or who I’d like to notice me. Then comes the eye contact and open body language (smiles, looking up at them from my eyelashes, tucking a lock of hair behind my ear or touching my neck. If a man finds you even somewhat attractive and is available, he will be looking for subtle cues that you are interested in him as well. If he didn’t notice you right away and you give those cues and then he decides he is attracted to you, he’ll still think he’s the one in control and immediately start plotting how he can strike up a conversation with you!
My challenge to you is to talk to 5 white guys this weekend. Find some specific detail to comment or tease him on, ask for a favor, make a remark about your surroundings, whatever! Don’t build up any expectations that these conversations will lead to your next boyfriend or even a date – you’re simply going to be more sociable. You’ll see for yourself how many guys will respond to you (remember to be at your best when you do this as you’ll exude the confidence to execute this task much more effectively) and have fun!
Soon you’ll see with your own eyes that everywhere you go there’s a hot white guy who will be more than open to chatting you up and engaging in playful/flirty banter with you. The more you do this, the more your mentality will change. It would then be insane for you to tell yourself and truly believe there aren’t a lot of white guys who would be interested in you because the proof will be before your very eyes – undeniable! Men love ALL WOMEN who excite them, can make them feel at ease, comfortable and whom they can have fun with.
May the force be with you!!!