Myth Busters: Black Women only get “ugly” White Men
Seriously? Do the haters ACTUALLY believes this?
It’s widely known that women all over the world are coached to choose a mate based on more than just looks. Factors such as love, ambition, willingness to provide and take care of a family, to commit, loyalty, honesty, values, stability etc. weigh more heavily, or at least they should, when choosing a man to settle down with. It all boils down to a “quality partner”. Yes, it is important that you be attracted to your man/woman but everyone knows looks fade with time and someone’s personality probably won’t.
So, my first point is that women worldwide date down in the looks department as they trade in for other, more important things. AND, if you’ve ever been in love and then out of love, lord knows when you are seeing stars your mate becomes more and more inexplicably sexy and you are blind to things like that big nose, extra weight, or bow legs!
That being said, most people (hence the term average) date other average people, or people within 1 or 2 points of their own attractiveness.
Another thing worth mentioning is that women (black, white, asian, etc.) tend to put a lot more effort into their looks. So when striped of all the hair, makeup, clothes, accessories, etc., most women would be considered average.
Just look around you on all over the bw/wm interracial blogs that feature pictures of real couples and it is easy to see the crap people spout about black women only being able to land unattractive and OLD/gross white men, is hot and steaming! But, just to drive my point on home, here are some pictures of black women with very good looking White men for the haters to eat their hearts out and for the supporters to enjoy!
P.S. The guys I am currently dating are very attractive, MY AGE and younger, and the ones who are checking for me are certainly not undesirables, so I’m speaking from real world experience.