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October 4, 2012 / admin

Myth Busters: Black Women only get “ugly” White Men

Seriously? Do the haters ACTUALLY believes this?

It’s widely known that women all over the world are coached to choose a mate based on more than just looks. Factors such as love, ambition, willingness to provide and take care of a family, to commit, loyalty, honesty, values, stability etc. weigh more heavily, or at least they should, when choosing a man to settle down with. It all boils down to a “quality partner”. Yes, it is important that you be attracted to your man/woman but everyone knows looks fade with time and someone’s personality probably won’t.

So, my first point is that women worldwide date down in the looks department as they trade in for other, more important things. AND, if you’ve ever been in love and then out of love, lord knows when you are seeing stars your mate becomes more and more inexplicably sexy and you are blind to things like that big nose, extra weight, or bow legs!

That being said, most people (hence the term average) date other average people, or people within 1 or 2 points of their own attractiveness.

Another thing worth mentioning is that women (black, white, asian, etc.) tend to put a lot more effort into their looks. So when striped of all the hair, makeup, clothes, accessories, etc., most women would be considered average.

Just look around you on all over the bw/wm interracial blogs that feature pictures of real couples and it is easy to see the crap people spout about black women only being able to land unattractive and OLD/gross white men, is hot and steaming! But, just to drive my point on home, here are some pictures of black women with very good looking White men for the haters to eat their hearts out and for the supporters to enjoy!

P.S. The guys I am currently dating are very attractive, MY AGE and younger, and the ones who are checking for me are certainly not undesirables, so I’m speaking from real world experience.



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  1. SwirlQueen / Oct 5 2012 1:34 am

    Love this blog post as you are right on. People need to stop trippin.

  2. sarah / Oct 5 2012 3:01 am

    very well said, and the couples are hot! with that said the people hating need to kick rocks!!

  3. Excellent post, shared with the BWWOB fam on FB
    because this page rocks I love your topics. Love, DDR

    • admin / Oct 7 2012 10:51 pm

      Aww, thanks!

  4. Integrated Memoirs / Oct 5 2012 12:35 pm

    LMAO!!! OK, whatever. My husband is a HOT “Italian Stallion.” 🙂

  5. tonyrodg / Oct 6 2012 3:27 pm

    Very cute couples.

  6. A Swirl Girl / Oct 6 2012 11:31 pm

    Great post! Pinned all these couples to my Pinterest.

  7. Kelly Manchester / Oct 7 2012 7:49 pm

    I agree. Especially with the part that says that when you are dating someone, they tend to become more and more physically attractive to you if you like what they’re selling. Race doesn’t even really have much to do with that at all.

    However it also seems to be true that some old white guys live their lives, divorce and then start panting for younger black women.

    • admin / Oct 8 2012 1:32 am

      Yeah, some bw can land those older white guys too, but the important thing to note is we can get the cute, younger ones as well and we often do! We’ve got options 🙂

  8. pkayden / Oct 8 2012 2:48 pm

    That’s ironic since the stereotype I often hear is that Black men only date/marry ugly OVERWEIGHT White women. LOL.

  9. JensenJay / Oct 9 2012 6:57 pm

    HATER’S will HATE!! cause that’s the way it this post by the way and yes,bw do get top a playa’s white men. no matter what ppl say just keep watching!! Beautiful Couple’s Too!!

    • Carina / Oct 14 2012 11:46 am

      Yes, really beautiful couples. I wanna steal that guy in the third picture! Damn, he’s fine!!!!

      • Nicole Abbott / Jan 6 2013 7:31 pm

        I like the guy in pics #1 and #4. They are handsome

  10. *enchante* / Oct 12 2012 3:14 pm

    Wellll ‘maybe’ at one time, but this is 2012 and its a whole nother ballgame.Even some pretty white girls are having a hard time getting dates today; Black girls, just sit back and be ladies and ladylike who smile and have fun!

  11. blacksheeplost / Oct 15 2012 3:09 am

    Reblogged this on Confessions of a Jadedheart and commented:
    Myth officially busted. Awesome piece!!!!!!

  12. M / Oct 15 2012 10:25 am

    *Looks at the boyfriend as he smolders, is momentarily dumbstruck by the hawtness*

    I’m sorry, what’s this about us only getting the ugly ones? Me and Mr. Gorgeous didn’t get the memo……

  13. Foxxy / Oct 19 2012 12:58 am

    What irritates me is the fact that people still think of it as “interracial” dating. Seriously. It should NOT matter.

  14. Miriam / Oct 19 2012 3:37 pm

    Love this Blog. So truthful.


    One of your blue eye lover supporters 🙂

  15. theonlytruevashti / Oct 19 2012 3:47 pm

    Love this blog. So truthful.


    One of your blue eye lover supporters : )

  16. jane / Nov 3 2012 1:06 am

    that third picture i always wondered who she was untill i saw her on bridzillas the other day as a bridesmaid and i was like what? :O and then i took to the web to find and figured out she was actually a model. her and her boyfriend are such a match

  17. shantell / Nov 11 2012 10:01 pm

    I’m sorry I’m just not comfortable about interaccial dating after I saw how many racist tweets were against Obama’s election and the race roits in Mississippi.

    • pkayden / Dec 1 2012 5:29 pm

      What does interracial dating have to do with the racist tweets and race riots? There have always been interracial relationships and always will be interracial relationships. These are relationships between two individuals and not between two whole races. Individuals fall in love regardless of race all of the time.

  18. blackfemaleculture / Jan 26 2013 10:52 pm

    I didn’t chose my husband for his looks, I married for love, shared values, upstanding character, psychological and financial stability. Yet, I don’t believe that anyone, at any time, has ever accused my husband of being unattractive. LOL. This latest ploy of the haters is truly weak.


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