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October 15, 2012 / admin

What’s your Biggest Problem with Interracial Dating?

We get thousands of visitors per day here at black women white men and while we enjoy creating fun content that can easily be consumed, we want to know what you want to read and talk about; most importantly, we want to help you!

So, what’s your biggest challenge that you face when it comes to interracial dating?

Is it finding out where to meet white men or black women? Or what to say when you do?

Is it how to flirt or be more feminine?

Maybe you’ve asked yourself countless times whether or not a white guy you’re into likes black girls, or if a particular black woman likes white men and you need help figuring out if the object of your affection is open to interracial dating?

How about how to be more confident around the opposite sex? Or are you already in an interracial relationships and need help navigating what to do when everyone and their mother has something to say about it?

We want to know what you are struggling with and need the most help with … so share your biggest problems below and don’t be shy! (paragraphs and books are welcome!)



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  1. Venita Johnson / Oct 15 2012 4:22 pm

    First I will like to say that white men turn me. I’m texting taking to a man now who I met online & already Im attracted to how he responds to my questions how he has been respectful & so far has shown himself to be confident & assertive. I have issue with when Im out with my guy & holding on to his arm other blacks particularly men are bold enough to actually open their mouths & say ignorant hateful comments. Its ok for whom ever not to like interracial but who I decide to hook up with is nobodys business except amybe my pastor & certain family members. People should keep their hate to themselves & not project their unresolved issues on other because I foe one will not tolerate it & if that means me & my guy has to defend ourselves if physically attacted then it is what it is.

  2. Pamela Kennedy / Oct 21 2012 3:50 pm

    My biggest problem is beating off the thug types that for some reason think they OWN me and getting through TO the decent guys. Hey maybe if I take to hanging around Synagogues and Temples in ADDITION to joining Physics clubs, math clubs, chemistry clubs, biotechnology clubs and going to meetings and dissertations of the above-mentioned clubs.

    I even tried attending Italian-language Mass in Bensonhurst but that didn’t work because Mass attendees are predominantly older women and older men. The older generation even if they were fresh off the boat.

  3. jess / Oct 28 2012 7:58 am

    The wm where I live are kind of racist snobs (some even turn their noses @ me when I’m not even coming on to them). They aact like its a chore to even be polite! The ww are not as snobby, but I’m not a lesbian, lol

    • Darren / Jun 21 2013 8:18 pm

      Where do you live that all the white men are like that?

  4. franie / Aug 14 2013 4:23 pm

    Well i’m in college but i think i’m invisible to white guys, i ‘m shy and quiet.i would say i am more on the curvy side but not fat, i’m pretty nice. I would love a post on how to get a wm ‘s attention! also what to do when you do get noticed

    • Darren / Aug 18 2013 10:15 pm

      It can be tough. There is an assumtion among white guys that black women are not attracted to white guys. So chances are a white guy will not approch you. This does not mean that white guys won’t like to date you. You may just need to let white guys know your intrested in dating a white guy and see if someone takes the bate. Or join an interaical dating site.Prob the best way to meet a white guy that dates black women. Good luck.


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