Should you be Skeptical of White Men who only Date Black Women?
I’ve seen this advice doled out to Black women before – “Beware of White men who only date Black women”. Why? Because more than likely they fetishize Black skin and are not so much interested in who you are as a person. In other words, they see your blackness more than they see you. But is this really true?
If you are a Black women who has only dated White men or prefer to date WM only because you find yourself really attracted to them, does this mean that you are fetishizing White men too?
I’m torn on this one, because honestly I prefer to date White men who haven’t dated Black women before. I just find that they seem to like me because of who I am after getting to know me, not liking me off the bat because of how they think I am or will act. Of course I have no reference point because I have never dated a White man who has dated Black women before me or exclusively sought out Black women to date.
What do you guys think? Speak on it below!