Do Black Women Act Differently when they Date White Men?
Supposedly Black Women lose the attitude, become ultra feminine, extra sweet and extra accommodating once they are paired up with White guys.
I began to wonder if there is indeed any truth to this widely spouted idea and then I came across an article titled The Masculine Man and the Feminine Woman and everything clicked.
Excerpt from http://hotalphafemale.com/2011/03/the-masculine-man-and-the-feminine-woman.html#more-1017 (The emphasis is mine)
“Also keep in mind that different people can draw out different energies in you. A friend, partner or family member may draw out more of the masculine or feminine aspects in you. For instance a woman that is more naturally feminine may be the more masculine partner in a relationship, if her masculine is stronger than his. Therefore, if she believes she can’t trust her partner to be the man and to make the right decisions, then she will do the decision making and the leading. She will be the masculine energy in that relationship even though her base nature is strongly feminine. The catch is that despite all her leading and decision making she will feel empty and unfulfilled at the end of the day because she isn’t able to express and explore her true essence.
What she truly needs a man with a strong masculine base. A man that is naturally leads, asserts, and is stronger. When she is with a man like this she can relax that masculine energy in her and she can fully explore her femininity. Where she was hard, crass, and determined in her other relationship; she can now be open, fun, receptive, and loving. This happens because she is a with a man that compliments her base nature. This is how a woman can seem so different based on the man that she is dating. You guys have a tremendous impact on how a woman feels and acts. Always remember that.”
Ladies, please go and read the full article – it will enligthen you and hopefully help you in your mate selections.
So perhaps Black women act differently when they date White men because White men allow them to operate in their core base (feminine energy) by virtue of operating in their core base (masculine energy). Of course, I could be all wrong – but then again, I could be right!