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June 20, 2011 / admin

Blog Spotlight – White Guys Who Love Black Women (UPDATED 7/17)

I received an email from a reader alleging that the admin of this blog uses it to meet black women and cheat on his girlfriend of 2 years. I can’t really vouch for whether or not this is true so I want to caution you if you find the admin doing anything remotely resembling trying to pick you up /meet you offline. The blog still stands as an ode to Black Women so I will keep it up (plus I cannot verify the reader’s accusations). Just be careful and smart!


This week’s blog spotlight is shining on White Guys Who Love Black Women

This 30 year old European born blogger, who currenly resides in NY, really appreciates everything about Black Women and he isn’t afraid to say so or defend us against ignoramuses (as you will see if you keep reading)!

Excerpt from his blog: I’m shocked!

Sunday, December 26, 2010

“I went out yesterday and met this korean girl that has been in the states for a little over 10 years. As we were talking about New York, the differences between living here and in Europe/Korea it became appartent to me that she was a highly educated and well travelled person with lots of interesting stories to tell. Anyways, after a while we started talking about the dating scene in New York and what our preferences in terms of partners were. I had the feeling that the conversation was going really well and she actually took an interest in me. And then I heard something that really shocked me. Although this woman did not know me and met me for the first time in her life, she felt comfortable enough to tell me that she thinks black people (she specifically called out blacks, east indians, filipinos and thais) are dirty. I was shocked! Not that I haven’t hear any racist comments from people before, but the reason I was so shocked was twofold. For one, it was coming from an obviously formally highly educated and well travelled person and secondly the fact that she was a woman. Typically when you hear this kind of stuff it’s guys who are saying it, not women. Especially not “smart” women. However, after I heard that, the conversation went down the hill quickly. She realized and clearly saw that I was not feeling her statement at all. I didn’t bother to tell her that I think that this was an absolutely stupid thing to say, but I decided to leave her with a few thoughts that I guess surprised her. I told her how much I adore black women and that I have dated them for years, which judging by her reaction was a shock to her, since she did, for whatever reason, not expect me to be attracted to black women. A few minutes after that I left the scene and was very confused about what I just experienced. Anyways, on my way home I saw plenty of gorgeous black women and could just not understand how anyone might ever consider them dirty. Sometimes it’s a crazy world we are living in.”

Check out the rest of his blog here!



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  1. JEss / Jun 20 2011 8:32 pm

    Yeah, I like his blog. BTW, what’s up with the angry avitar next to my name?:,,(

    • admin / Jun 25 2011 11:12 am

      WordPress is assigning these freaky looking monsters to email addresses! lol. It makes the site more colorful than blank profile pics. Feel free to upload a picture though and it will override the monster avatar

    • mzdougla / Jun 26 2011 9:49 pm

      I was wondering the very same 😀
      I actually have two scary avatars. I use my phone sometimes to comment and when I forget to sign in and just use my name, I have an insane blue creature lol…just letting you know that also Admin. I don’t want anyone to think I’m more than one person lol.

  2. Valerie / Jun 23 2011 11:05 am

    Very interesting! It does shock a lot of people that white men find black women attractive!

    • missclem / Jul 2 2011 2:01 pm

      yeah it does shock people especially white people. my husband is white and you should see the looks we get when we are out in public. black people sometimes dont care its mostly white people. Me and my husband are attractive and its very funny when the white women give me looks.

      • jay / Mar 28 2014 4:08 am

        It is simple why they look at you as a odd couple! Black women today are looked at as strong powerful beings, outspoken, angry, less submissive, and white men are looked at as those in control of the world, racist, warmongers, conning, but secure in most cases! This in its self is a power team of interracial latching to a (Winning team)! So insecure white women will hate secretly , and you as a black woman will fill the burn or vibration of their stinging eye stare, but you filling exonerated by your catch of a life time…well accomplished, and like “What are you looking at…B#4ctch) ? You get the point! As a black man , I respect your choice in the matter, and truly wish you well! Happiness anywhere is happiness everywhere, and needed on a much larger scale! You must understand, in most cases, no matter how far you run away from your ethnic background , more than likely , you are the lineage of slaves forced against the will of your ancestors, as a people long ago! And let us not forget the over all condition of most of those still in this land who are the relatives of these people that still suffer from the effect of slavery! No matter what, you are some how still connected, so why should you have that right of way to marry a white man? We can easily say, (Freedom of choice). I must digress in respect to all who have that (Choice)! People naturally connect others as groups and less in respect to individually! We do this to everything, birds, dogs, trees, people etc.The Jews never forget the Holocaust, Rome never forget Julius Caesar, The Edomites forget not the Crusades! But Negros must erase the fact of being the lost sheep of Israel! The underline meaning of their dislike (White women) is how dare you love one of us, and the condition of your kind (Black Race) is in ruin! ” Your not one of us” the accomplished!. All of a sudden (We shall over come) song of the mourn is somberly playing in the foreground, and the reasons of apathy sighs with why? Why forget the struggle of a people? Why cant they accept the fact we are a couple? Simply because you two are…………different! And whats more important as far as expectancies, is that you have over come your differences! Good for You! The world has not!

  3. Ruthlyn / Jun 28 2011 5:20 pm doesn’t delve as deep as blogs written by women on the subject but it’s a “cute” effort, bless his heart. he means well.

  4. Ruthlyn / Jun 28 2011 5:27 pm

    although it IS nice to be defended and not bashed for a change!

  5. missclem / Jul 2 2011 1:58 pm

    My husband is a white man and he is madly in love with me and loves me very much. Ilike to here and read stories about white man who love black women. It shows me that they too need love

    • zipporah / Feb 24 2012 10:10 pm

      Not only do we need love, we’re the ‘cinderella’ of the western world. Especially dark girls. I’m so glad that Disney made the movie Cinderella and used Brandy in the rold

      • zipporah / Feb 24 2012 10:11 pm

        ………in the role……LOL

    • Robert / Jul 7 2012 6:42 pm

      I’m white and my wife is black, we have been together for 28 years, we have three kids and two grandkids. We still get the stairs, and my wife says people think that we are probably just dating and have no idea we have been together this long. For me black women are the most beautiful women on this earth. I can’t see myself being with anyone else.

  6. Sabrina / Jul 14 2011 3:24 pm

    This blog definitely warms my heart. I’m a dark skinned black woman and my fiance is Irish. He’s one of the most handsome men I’ve ever seen, he’s tall, has dark hair and crystal blue eyes. We’ve been together for two years and he treats me like a princess. He’s told me that I’m the most gorgeous woman he’s ever known and he just goes out of his way all the time to show me how much he appreciates and loves me. He has the kindest, sweetest heart I’ve ever encountered, great sense of humor and very intelligent. Our relationship isn’t perfect, we go through our ups and downs but race has never been an issue for us. He is everything I’ve ever wanted in a man and I’m so happy to have him in my life. No matter what race you prefer to date, good men are definitely hard to find these days. I love him with all my heart and treat him like a King because that’s what he deserves.

    • zipporah / Feb 24 2012 10:14 pm

      By now Sabrina, I HOPE he put a ring on it, and you did the DEED…Wedding Anniversaries are real cool!!

  7. Mai / Nov 9 2011 3:26 pm

    Why am I not surprised about what a foreign person says about blacks? They hear negative things usually from whites and they also have their preconceived ideas anyway. Frankly I really don’t give a rats patootie what she or anyone thinks. It is a waste of time and energy to try to change what anyone believes in their heart. This lady may be well educated but she is clueless when it comes to people. I could make that same conclusion based on the few dirty ,ignorant korean people that I have seen but I don’t because I’m not that “stupid”.

  8. Vee / Mar 10 2012 9:26 pm

    Thanks for your open-minded opinion, this will get you far. Ignorance never helped anyone, bless you. I adore you, from a fascinated black lady.

  9. Teri / Jun 6 2014 3:57 am

    I’m an African American woman of course, being that this site caters to black women in interracial relationships. My European American husband and I were holding hands walking in the mall one day and an African American man whispered in my ear as he walked pass me saying, ” Not bad, you did a good job picking a good white man for yourself because black men no longer want black women.” It didn’t bother me so I kept walking. Other men want black women if black men don’t want them.

    At a different time, a European American man said to us, “We need to break you up to save our race to see who defeats who in the end.” Some people would rather inbreed because they are too scared to love others outside of their family in case of a violent race War.

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