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November 15, 2010 / admin

Would Hiring a Wing-Woman Make IR Dating Easier?


If you are a White men interested in dating Black women, would it be easier to do if you hung around or walked into a bar/club with another black woman in tow?

Ok, let me clarify. Would it be easier to approach a Black women if you had a Black “wing woman” on your side to prep said women and introduce you as a platonic friend first?

Let me think about that … hmm.

But let’s say you think a wing woman could help you on the IR dating front, where exactly would you find these women? And does a service like this actually exist? Uh, yeah – this is America!

Okay, so http://www.wingwomen.com is not actually specifically a service for White men looking to date Black women but the overall premise is the same. Men go to the site and pay $75 per hour to have a wing woman accompany them on a night out for a minimum of 3 hours. When a man spots a woman he’s digging the wingwoman’s “pretty awesome” job is to strike up a conversation/connection with her (something as simple as “Cute shoes”) and once they’ve made a bond cue his entrance. The wingwoman then makes an introduction and the man uses his charm and wit from there to keep the ball rolling.

There is no way to see your wingwoman before you purchase the service but you can make a request for certain attributes. The site makes it clear to keep in mind that your wing woman is not your date so it doesn’t really matter what she looks like, but in this particular case where you would be trying to meet Black Women, would a White wing woman suffice?

I don’t know…

My initial thoughts, and a potential drawback to other women who think like me, would be: The couple is together or trying to do some freaky swinging/3 way stuff.

However, if the woman made it clear that they weren’t an item by peppering her introduction with code words such as “oh this is my buddy/work colleague/old friend, Mark” while sporting an engagement ring (ladies you know you’d catch this) then I just might fall for it.

So, what do you think? Men, would you hire a wing woman? Would you consider hiring one for a cheaper price? Women, would you hire a wing woman to help you meet men? Would you want a man to use this pretty ingenious and unorthodox method to approach you? Or do you just want to know where you can put in your application? Sound off in the comment section below!

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  1. Enterprise / Nov 28 2010 4:52 am

    Great precise info, I’ve been searching on this topic for a while. Bookmarked and recommended!

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